Avyaan Negi

For parents, from parents.

This isn't a coaching guide and it isn't advice — we're not qualified to give any. It's the part of the journey nobody hands you a manual for: everything around the football that a family actually has to figure out. We're writing down what we faced, what we chose, and plenty we got wrong — in case it helps someone a season behind us feel less alone.

The essentials

The real logistics of raising a young footballer — everything around the game, from the questions parents actually ask.

Money & MilesSchool & SleepFuel & BodyThe ChoicesHead & Heart
The practical bitMoney & MilesThe real cost, and the driving nobody warns you about.Read our notesThe rest of lifeSchool & SleepKeeping a nine-year-old a nine-year-old.Read our notesFood & growthFuel & BodyWhat he eats, how he grows, and the niggles.Read our notesThe decisionsThe ChoicesAcademies, tournaments, kit — and the big yes/no calls.Read our notesThe inner gameHead & HeartExpectations, the lows, and not becoming a second coach.Read our notes

A living sectionThese notes grow as we do. Nothing here is settled or expert — it's one family's record, and it will keep changing as Avyaan does.